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About Me

I am easy going and really interested at making people happy. I am a total geek I love Star Wars, Role playing games, sci-fi, board games, video games and the like, I see myself as a creative and open minded individual. What I want out of life is to find someone to share it with, who gets me and accepts me and all of my weirdness. Then to grow old with that person and have kids along the way as family is very important to me. Keep in mind I do not want this now, maybe in 5 years, what I want is to a like minded woman who also wants to take things slow so that our relationship is unbreakable. I love sitting down to read or watch a movie or show with a nice warm cup of tea, I don't drink soda though I wouldn't hold it against you if you did. I have strong beliefs though I am willing to change my mind if the evidence and arguments are compelling enough, i love good debates. My religious views are that I do not like organized religions as I see it making good people do bad things for flimsy justifications, though I keep those thoughts to myself, friends and my significant other. I am non religious, the detailed answer would take awhile to explain, it is hard to put someones believe in life and existence into a one word answer. I enjoy long walks with a good friend or someone I love to discuss politics, philosophy, and stuff in general. I am always willing to try something at least once. My alignment is Neutral-Good if you understand D&D. I just recently got into costume design as a hobby and I am trying to regain my art talent.

wildcard1985
26
San Marcos
California
United States
Male
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Single
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Oh I hate trying to describe myself. I love to make people laugh though I think my style is hard to pinpoint, at times I am goofy and others I am satirical and witty. I like to have fun and I don't take things too seriously, unless of course it is a serious situation. When I put my mind to something I do what it takes to get it done and I pride myself on my out of the box thinking. I am a very creative person and I don't like to limit myself so I like drawing, crafting, writing poems, singing to myself, creating stories. In relationships much like anything that I want a lot I pour myself into it, I am extremely loyal and honest and open with people. My honestly can be bad though as I say things how I see them, I am open minded and not much will bother me, but that honestly can bother people. I also have a hard time focusing on stuff unless it is as I mentioned before something I want it a lot, so I have what I call a Wikipedia brain where I have 5 different things in my head at once. My over thinking also makes it hard for me to go to sleep.

Hair: Dark Brown  Eyes: Hazel  Height: 5'8"  Race: White
I have been told that of all my ethnicities (Scottish, Welse, Irish, English, Dutch, Austrian, and Chickasaw) scottish is probably the closest to what I look like.

Some College

San Marcos High school and Palomar College are the important ones.

I hack URL codes for a jersey companies custom line so that the files the customers submit look the way they want, I have been doing it for 3 years.

Vons meat clerk (yes I packed a lot of meat), janitor for Babies'R'Us (eeeeeewwww), security, and data entry

I have one sister that is two years younger then me, a half brother 13 years younger, a half sister 22 years younger and another half brother 25 years younger then me. I try to keep in contact with all the family I can because I am a family kind of guy.

Scifi, boardgames, Tea, cardgames, roleplaying, drawing, cosplay, conventions, rockband and much more

I game a lot with my friends, boardgames, card games, rpgs,video games and parties. I am usually the organizer and coordinator, which is fine with me though I do not like the jobs I get them done.

I don't know for sure but here are some things I like or dislike: Like: Honestly (minor secrets that don't affect me are fine as I hear it is healthy for women to have some secrets from their man as long as they are not important secrets), openness (if there is a problem tell me), Geeky is a plus, Loyalty, willing and able to communicate with me, someone who is into or at least willing to try things that I enjoy and I will do the same, Rational for the most part (don't tell me one thing when you mean another), Wants kids and marriage someday
Dislikes: Arrogance, Racism, Sexism, close minded, hates kids, violent

As a hobby I like to make costumes, Board games, and Card games

I probably drink a hand full of occasions a year.

Trying to be better at this too but it is a slow process.

Not into drugs at all, even if they where legal, don't like the idea of taking something designed to mess my brain up.

I try to look nice, I wear slacks and a button up shirt most of the time. Not too terribly trend, though I think I do look good in a suit and fedora.

I don't do it as often as I would like, I am sure I would do it more if I had a partner.

I shower once a day and I brush my teeth twice and floss a day.

I have some younger siblings that I helped raise and though they could be a handful I enjoyed the experience. It is one of my dreams to have children with the love of my life when we are both stable and married, not before though I do not want my children growing up in difficult times.

I like animals, especially cats because they are clean and relatively quiet and clean. I do not own any pets though as I have enough on my plate without worrying about a pets well being, and I would rather not own a pet then be a bad owner.

I enjoy talking about them though I like creative, geeky, or philosophical topics more. In general I see politics as necessary but exhausting, though I would never want to lose my right to have my voice heard and vote.

Atheist, of course its more complicated then that though. I am non-theist in the sense that I have never seen evidence of a god/gods or magical forces reveal itself to the world. until that day I will treat the world as though there is no god/gods/magical force and take comfort that anything that goes my way is because I caused it and if it doesn't then I suck it up and go again, because nothing cause it beyond something in the natural world that could be overcome unlike an all powerful force.

Hate the smell and I hate what it does to people and rooms.

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